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Or they start off focusing on actions and once that first sentence is gone, they never get another chance to bring it back. I've been your for now and finally got the to go ahead and give you a shout out from ! I the you here and can't wait to take a look when I get home.
There's no known strategy to get the conversation back on track.
I GUARANTEE the ALL of us still have some scar from k-12 that we carry around with us because unlike the scratch or cut you got, "word wounds" DO NOT heal as cleanly. JSmooth - those are wise word tools for MANY situations. I believe if people would just take 2 seconds to engage their "brain-mouth filter" before saying ANYTHING the world would be a much better place. of course its not the fault of any individual white folks, and of course they should try to examine how white supremacism has shaped their beliefs and relationships, and listen to people of color to support the struggle against white privilege, but until that has gone away they're still very much a part of that racism.
i dont like some white boy telling me how i should be having conversations about race, especially since you're convienently talking about it in a way that excuses you from being implicated as a racist.
People get more upset about the possibility they might have been called racist than the fact that their actions are racist as hell.
They'll harp and linger on all their deeds in the past and what clubs they belong to and who their friends are.
When someone fires an arrow into you, you don't try and find out who fired the arrow and what they are all about.concentrate on getting the arrow out. Jay, You're not speaking wrong, but it feels like you're speaking idealistically.
ava, he's not arguing that whites are or are not racist, he's instead commenting on a strategic way to confront people when racism becomes apparent in their words or actions.