Rules dating older guy
Your confidence in him will inspire him to do his best.If he is paying attention and trying to learn your preferences, then he is a keeper.Extroverts can hold their own and fight fire with fire.But if you admire a man with a more subtle style, you have to be careful not to overwhelm him with your eagerness, or nudge him into "going along" passively with your agenda.What he responds to best is a woman with a light, feminine touch; like a beautiful butterfly, she shimmers just out of reach.By not “helping” him date you, you are letting him know that you see him as the competent adult man that he is. If he approaches you and you start dating, trust that he can figure out what to do.You could find yourself in an entanglement with a man who's not really sure how or why he got there.Here are 7 observations and comments from clients over the past year.
Because he appears to need help in approaching you and setting up dates, you might be tempted to bend rules for him or to assume that he is an exception to the rules. He may appear to be passive, but that’s usually just a temporary switch that got flipped by the various women in his life — his overly helpful sister, exes, and coworkers.
(I like smart, nerdy, shy guys so much, I married one.) It's not surprising: these men tend to be quiet leaders — successful and widely respected.